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The Advantages of Personalized Advertising

If you’ve been paying attention to advertising lately, you’ve probably noticed that ads are getting a lot more personalized.  This is a good thing.  It means companies are spending some time thinking about their customers as individuals with specific perspectives and interests.

Seems like an obvious insight, right?  After all, I haven’t met anyone who prefers to be treated like a stereotype or a generic number that is very much like other generic numbers within a statistical collective.  Yet, there are still companies out there who try to sell you a product or service using Henry Ford’s old maxim:  “You can have it any color you like, as long as it’s black.”

Sometimes mass-production concerns limit variation, so it’s an understandable limitation, but it’s nice, and uncorporate, when companies give you choice.  Sure it may take more effort to produce choices that cater to an individual’s preferences, but it can lead to a stronger connection with the brand, and that’s rarely bad for sales. That’s why you can customize your Google homepage, buy an iPod or car that approximates your favorite color, and special-order your Dell machine to include just the components you want.

Efforts to custom-tailor advertising campaigns to the individual rather than to a broad demographic are relatively new, but the idea is slowly catching on.   Let’s look at three interesting examples:

AMERICAN EXPRESS

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Ever since American Express started running their “My Life. My Card” campaign, I’ve been intrigued by the number of respectable celebrities who got involved.  Tina Fey, M. Night Shyamalan, Ellen DeGeneres, and Robert DeNiro are a few of the names who participated.  I’m sure American Express paid them all handsomely, but even so, high-profile figures are  generally concerned to some degree about the appearance of selling out.

How then did American Express land so many big names?  I’m guessing part of their success came from the freedom they gave their participants to express themselves.  In the above commercial notice how the people involved talk about their unique contributions to the world, their projects.  There’s no corporate, generic discussion about how American Express exceeds expectations or how  it puts customers first. Instead we get specific examples of interesting people sharing their passions with us in a personal way.

When I see that commercial, I don’t think, “hey look at all those sell outs.”   I see new sides of people I admire, and I’m left wondering what my special contribution  to this world might be and how American Express could help me share it.    Not a bad message to convey, yes?  I don’t know about you, but the message’s appeal to me is a big reason why I have an American Express card.

EPSON

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Most of us with computers use printers to get important things done, but how often do you hear someone begging for geek cred by bragging on his printer instead of his cell phone, or stereo system, or game console?  Not often I think.   I definitely don’t lose sleep waiting for tech specs on the season’s upcoming printers.  Epson understands this.  That’s probably why they came up with epsonalities.

If you go to their site at epsonality.com you can go through several tests to find out which printer is exactly right for your personality.   You don’t get thrown into a broad group based on your age, sex, or occupation, because, after all, you are an individual, and your needs and wants are different by definition from  those of others,  perhaps a little or perhaps a lot. Why shouldn’t that also be true about the printer you use?

The print ads and tv spots used to promote the epsonality site, like the one above, emphasize the particular ways that particular people want to use printers.    Specific examples in the advertising help us imagine how we might use an Epson for our own specific purposes.  And when you think about it like that, it does make printers seem more fun, almost like a beloved cell phone.

ADIDAS

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Adidas has run a series of Impossible is Nothing ads that feature more famous people talking about their struggles.  Those are interesting enough for their emphasis on the individual and his specific struggles in achieving success.  The ads don’t generalize about how Adidas helps you win just like (fill in name of famous athlete here).   They look at the particulars and inspire us in the process.

But, what really strikes me about the commercial above is that it celebrates a team that doesn’t achieve undisputed success. To most observers, the featured Saint Margarets team isn’t a triumphant one, but to the team itself that one goal they scored is a colossal victory. 

It’s such a great, uncorporate thing that Adidas is willing to rejoice even with a team that loses the game but still achieves something unprecedented. We can’t all win the big games, but we can all aim to do our very best as we play with our own unique skills and perspectives, and Adidas salutes us for that.  That’s a pretty compelling reason to buy Adidas stuff, don’t you think?

Remember these ads when dealing with friends and employees and clients.  No one wants to be treated like just another number, but treating someone like an individual takes time and effort.  It means taking an interest in someone, not for the sake of getting the sale but for the sake of a appreciating a fellow human being created in the image of God, just like you and me. It means taking the time to understand what motivates, intrigues, and repulses a person and spending more time adapting a specific approach to him or her.

You do it, to some extent, when you’re trying to sell to someone, so why not do it for the rest of the people in your life?  It is, after all, your chance and mine to make the world just a little less corporate.

Healing Corporate Relationships

“All tragedies are finished by a death, All comedies are ended by a marriage.” Lord Byron wrote that in Don Juan.   Great quote, especially when you think about it beyond a theatrical context (but then all the world’s a stage, isn’t it).    I think about this quote sometimes as a way to evaluate my life when it is all said and done.  Will I have lived a life of selfishness and distance from others, dying alone after a lifetime of sowing dissonance and death in others? Or will my life end as a small, but miraculous, divine comedy, one that involves building relationships with others that are bigger than me, while growing and giving back to the world a love greater than death?

Lord Byron painted by Marie Louise Élisabeth Vigée-Lebrun

Lord Byron painted by Marie Louise Élisabeth Vigée-Lebrun

I don’t know the answer to that.  I hope for the second choice, but fear the first.  How would Lord Byron answer that question, I wonder.  With his work he gave us astonishing poetry that defies the shackles of a conventional existence, but with his personal life he left passion, yes, but also chaos and sorrow with his wandering, profligate ways.   I’m not judging; I don’t know that I can do better with my personal life, at least not on my own.  But, I must hope and pray that it is still a possibility, even for me.

By now, you may be thinking, “well that is very nice, but what does this commentary have to do with making my business less corporate.”   Actually, I have no idea about what you’re thinking, so I have to guess.  (Perhaps you are actually thinking about the delciious bologna sandwich you will make for yourself very soon.  If that’s the case, go make that sandwich and come back when you’re ready.)

This determination to keep our personal lives separate from our business lives is part of the problem. In earlier days, people lived in more tightly-knit communities and they had some sense of each other’s personalities and characters.   You did business with the baker because you knew him and knew his personal reputation.  If he wronged the town in his personal life, then that would be something that the sensible townspeople would address before continuing with business as usual.

I’m generalizing, I know.  I’m not trying to suggest that everything was as it should be in the past, but I just want to call attention to the strange modern idea of severing the business life from the personal one.   That’s why we hear so many more business consultants talk about improving business through better public relations or better marketing.  It is  less popular to talk about improving business by becoming a more caring, less broken person (although there are people out there like Zig Ziglar who do this well).

It’s like Tolstoy said, “everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.” But if we want to change the things in business that don’t work, the stuff that leaves others discouraged and demoralized, we have to change the things in ourselves that cause the problems.   I’m writing this first and foremost to myself.

I have corporate interactions with people too often. Sometimes it’s because I want something out of them instead of valuing them as wondrous individuals worthy of affection and respect simply because they exist.   Sometimes it’s because being honest and facing the truth of the moment is hard, because it’s safer to prevent anyone from getting too close. (But, the same distance that prevents someone from stabbing another also prevents him from offering a hug.) Sometimes I don’t trust in a decency greater than myself or in a sense of self-correcting harmony that transcends the threat of easily observable punishment.

I want to change these things.  Talking about them helps.  So does prayer.  So does art and genuine friendship and playtime. Yes I really believe that even finding a sense of playfulness in the most mundane or painful of moments can make a big difference.   (That’s my justification for planning to buy myself a wii, by the way!)

I’ve been to awful business networking events where I’ve been encouraged to see other people as mere business opportunities.  Those things are proof enough that I’m not the only one who’s been tempted to see others as means to an end.

I’m sharing my personal struggles for my sake and for yours. If we all aim to be less corporate, even in our business relationships, then we’ll make the world a little better.  And maybe just maybe we can make those business meetings less about schmoozing to expand your brand and to maximize the power of your network (just the thought of that makes me want to throw up or get drunk) and more about meeting, appreciating and learning from interesting people.

Do you have any thoughts about how to turn corporate interactions into authentic ones?  If you do, I  hope you’ll share them.  Sharing honestly is one way to wish that it ends as a comedy for each of us. So, here’s hoping for a divine comedy to one and all.

Lord Byron by Richard Westall

Lord Byron painted by Richard Westall